Chastity Lifestyle Blog By Experienced Sex Educators

If you aren't already aware, we are sluts for data! Why? Because tracking trends in the kink world reveals what's actually resonating with people (you); what you're drawn to, what excites you, how you choose to express yourself, and even the psychology behind color choices. Our end-of-year 2025 report on the best products to enhance chastity reflects three major themes: personalization, gender exploration, and fantasy escapism. Here's what sold best on CB-X this year. What's the Best-Selling BDSM Gear in 2025? Out of all of the premium BDSM and fetish gear in the CB-X Kink Boutique, chastity accessories, sexy underwear for sissies, and fantasy pleasure products ruled the realm. A chastity cage is the foundation, but the accessories are like interior design; they transform something functional into a statement of self-expression. Each of these categories taps into something different – personalization, gender play, and escapism – and they also share one thing in common: they let people express themselves in ways that feel authentic and playful. The 2025 top-sellers prove that you aren't decorating with neutrals. You want color, glitter, and maximum impact. Aside from chastity cages for men, here is the best-selling BDSM gear in 2025. Category 1: Chastity Cage Accessories Clearly, y’all have a kink for pink, and we are here for it! Chastity accessories – specifically our one-of-a-kind, handmade chastity charms and Jingle Bells – are the most budget-friendly way to personalize your cock cage, turning a functional design into a personalized statement piece. These tiny accessories let wearers customize their chastity device without investing in a whole new setup. 1: Barbie Pink Jingle Bell for Chastity Cage - The Barbie pink took the top spot, followed closely by hot pink and light pink variations proving that pink reigns supreme in the Jingle Bell category.  2: Sparkly Pink Bow Chastity Cage Charm - This charm adds a playful, feminine touch to any cage and became an instant favorite among our beloved sissy enthusiasts. 3: Glow-in-the-Dark Twinkle Star Chastity Cage Charm - For those who want their cages to literally shine, this cosmic cock cage accessory brought a little magic to the lockdown experience. Twinkle Stars were often purchased alongside a glitter cock cage from our Guarded Galaxy male chastity collection. Category 2: Chastity Panties & Lingerie for Sissies Feminization play continued to trend upward in 2025, with underwear for sissies leading the charge. These pieces combine chastity functionality with the psychological thrill of wearing traditionally feminine garments, and exploring gender play and submission. 1: Magic Silk Hard Candy Low Rise Split Crotch Boyshort - Slick, low-rise, and featuring a split crotch for easy access, these latex-like boyshorts claimed the #1 spot for sissies seeking the perfect blend of form & function. 2: Prowler Male Lace Brief Open Back Underwear - Stretchy lace meets exposed-back style in these briefs that keep your cage secure while adding playful confidence to your underwear drawer. 3: Dreamgirl Neon Pink Sheer Thigh-High Stockings - Neon pink, lace-trimmed, and equipped with stay-up silicone bands, these thigh-highs became a best-seller for anyone wanting to add bright, feminine flair to their sissy transformation. Category 3: Fantasy Dildos Dildos will never not be a leader in the world of pleasure products, but this year, fantasy dildos stole the show. Fantasy sex toys let users escape reality and explore imaginative scenarios that traditional toys simply can't deliver, which is exactly why they dominated 2025. 1: Creature Cocks Rainbow Unicorn Glow-in-the-Dark Silicone Dildo - Magical, colorful, and glowing—this unicorn dildo brought childhood nostalgia into adult play in the best way possible. 2: Creature Cocks Aqua Cock 7.5" Glow-in-the-Dark Sea Monster Dildo - For those with aquatic fantasies, this sea creature design delivered both visual appeal and functional pleasure. 3: Creature Cocks Space Cock 8.5" Glow-in-the-Dark Silicone Alien Dildo - Extraterrestrial encounters got a whole lot more interesting with this alien-inspired design that topped fantasy toy sales. The Big Finish This year’s best-sellers prove that kink gear isn't just about getting off. Customizing your cock cage makes it actually feel like yours. Ultra-femme lingerie helps to embody a version of yourself that regular clothes can’t. Sci-fi sex toys? They turn our weird, wild fantasies into something tangible. So here’s to 2025, for giving us room to explore our unique curiosities without holding back.

  The numbers are in, and once again, the chastity community proved it moves in sync. 2025's best-selling cock cages? Predictable. In the best way possible. Since 1998, CB-X has led the chastity manufacturing world with our original CB-2000 chastity device. We followed that with the CB-3000 and eventually the CB-6000, cementing our position as the original innovators of modern cock cages. We've spent decades refining our chastity designs, and we didn't guess our way through the process. We count on your CB-X customer feedback to let us know what works, and what doesn’t, and we adjust. These numbers tell you everything you need to know. And it’s not luck, it’s years of actually listening. Year after year, we see the same purchasing patterns because most chastity wearers move through similar stages, even if their reasons for starting are completely different. Top 3 Best-Selling CB-X Chastity Cages in 2025 3. CB-6000S Chastity Cage Kit  The CB-6000S cock cage has been the worldwide best-seller, especially for chastity newcomers, since 1998. (The "S" stands for "smaller,” by the way.) We shortened our 3¼ CB-6000 device based on user feedback, and the CB-6000S has been the universal favorite ever since. Year after year, CB-6000S chastity kit takes the lead because it works. It’s modular, it’s beginner-friendly, and it is truly comfortable. If an "average" penis size exists, the CB-6000S provides the data to prove it. New chastity wearers consistently choose this size, making it the most reliable entry point into long-term chastity wear. Shop the CB-6000S Chastity Cage Only here. ------ 2. CB-X Mr. Stubb Chastity Cage Only Mr. Stubb is a 1 ¾” cock cage that straddles the line between beginner-friendly and seriously restrictive. We think of ol’ Stubby as the gateway to much tighter lockdown without sliding into an extreme size. The Ultraviolet glitter finish added flair to an already popular model, and the cage-only design sold best, because returning buyers don’t need to re-purchase a complete CB-X chastity kit. Mr. Stubb works for those who want to take a step towards tighter restriction than the CB-6000S, or beginners whose anatomy fits this micro range. Shop the CB-X Mr. Stubb Chastity Cage Kit here. ------ 1. CB-X Mini-Me® Chastity Cage Only Good things come in extra small packages! At 1 ¼”, the CB-X Mini-Me® took the top spot in 2025, proving that micro cock cages are still having a moment. This is the smallest men's chastity cage that we make, designed for extreme restriction and advanced chastity wearers. Most return customers pick Mini-Me because they've already sized down once (usually to Mr. Stubb) and are ready to shrink it even smaller. Small male chastity cages increase psychological intensity and physical restriction, which is why seasoned wearers gravitate toward Mini-Me once they've acclimated to short-term or permanent chastity. Shop the CB-X Mini Me® Chastity Cage Kit here. ------ What The Numbers Tells Us The pattern is clear: the majority of new CB-X chastity wearers start with the CB-6000S, get comfortable, then size down to Mr. Stubb or Mini-Me as they advance. CB-X's modular system makes this progression seamless. Swap the cage, keep everything else. We've watched this journey play out thousands of times. The 2025 sales numbers just confirm what we already knew: chastity wearers follow a predictable path, and we are here to meet them at every stage. 

Locked in for the full 31 days of Locktober? Make it official! 🔐 This year, we created a library of free digital Locktober logo assets in multiple sizes and color schemes so that you can: Document your chastity journey Connect with other Locktober participants, and/or Stay publicly (or semi-publicly) accountable during Locktober  Use them now to announce you're participating, or save them for November 1st to flex your Locktober completion. If you need help staying accountable all month, snag the CB-X Locktober Challenge Workbook for daily activities, mental discipline exercises, and tracking tools for the full 31 days. Where's the link to download? Keep reading. 🤓 Ideas For CB-X Locktober Digital Assets Create personalized images in Canva. From the homepage, click "Create a Design". Once you upload the digital Locktober asset/s of your choice, you can resize each logo to create custom Facebook headers, Twitter banners, or Instagram story templates & more with a free account. If you run a chastity-focused account, blog, or community space, these assets can give your content instant, cohesive Locktober branding.  Use them as a phone wallpaper or social media profile pic to keep yourself accountable all month long. The assets come in a few different color options, so pick what works for your aesthetic. They're free, they're adaptable, and they're ready to download.  Download CB-X Locktober Digital Assets here. 'Cause, like, everyone knows that in 2025, if there's no digital proof, it didn’t actually happen.😉 Locks of love, -Team CB-X

Sexual Health September isn't about “perfection” - it’s about listening to your body, understanding your limits, and knowing when to hit the reset button. When it comes to chastity, staying locked 24/7 with zero breaks isn't a badge of honor. It's a potential risk. Your body is a complex system that needs care, attention, and occasional breathing room. Breaks aren’t cheating…they're maintenance! Your body speaks. Are you listening?  Here are a few valid reasons that might signal it's time to unlock and reset your chastity practice. Physical Red Flags When your cage starts sending SOS signals through your skin, it's time to pay attention. Bodily discomfort is more than just an inconvenience; it’s your first line of defense! Persistent redness or chafing  Numbness or pinching Any sensation that screams "something's not right" Hygiene Check Cleaning your cage shouldn't feel like solving an impossible puzzle. Sometimes, maintaining proper hygiene means knowing when to take a strategic break. Cleaning becoming a nightmare Unexpected build-up Difficulty reaching alllllll the nooks & crannies Real-World Interruptions Your chastity practice doesn't exist in a bubble! Life happens, and sometimes you need flexibility more than you need a permanent lock down.  Travel security complications Medical appointments Workplace restrictions Physical activities that don't play nice with your setup Mental Health Meter Chastity is as much a mental game as a physical one. When the excitement starts to fade, it's time to check in with yourself and reset. When frustration outweighs excitement Discipline feels more like punishment The thrill is gone The Responsible Pause Playbook Daily Hygiene Unlocks: Clean. Inspect. Moisturize. Stretch and Reset: Give yourself some literal breathing room Ritual Matters: Quick unlock doesn't mean total freedom Lock-Light Strategy: Partial wear can be your new best friend Restarting: The Comeback Trail Pro move: Keep a chastity break journal. (Keep a journal for everything in life, honestly!) Track your reasons. Hygiene issue? Skin irritation? Scheduling conflict? Use this intel to craft a smarter, more sustainable lock-up strategy. Gear Up for Smarter Locks Want to manage breaks like a pro? CB-X Chastity Care Kit Sweat Defense Lotion Compact Plastic Travel Locks CB-X Modular Chastity Cage Kits - designed for durability and comfort! Breaks aren't the opposite of commitment. They're proof you're playing the long game. Sexual Health September is your reminder: responsible chastity practices make every locked moment more meaningful. Mindfully yours, Team CB-X  

Earlier this month, we asked the CB-X community to get personal about prostate play and chastity in our Anal August community survey. The data revealed patterns, preferences, and truths that challenged a few of our assumptions. Many responses indicate that prostate stimulation is not a side note in chastity life, but a defining part of how many of you approach pleasure and control. After analyzing your answers, two core beliefs were affirmed for us. Your collective wisdom as a community offers perspective that no amount of expert opinion could match, and your honesty creates space for others to explore openly. Which is exactly why we are sharing these results. Here's what the CB-X community had to say about their real-world experiences with prostate play and chastity. Question 1: What’s your experience level with chastity play?  The majority of respondents identified as intermediate or experienced, showing that the CB-X community skews toward seasoned participants rather than complete beginners. Question 2: How would you describe your current anal play experience?  Most respondents (63%) described their current anal play experience as intermediate, comfortable with plugs and medium toys, while a smaller portion identified as advanced or expert. This shows that the majority of the CB-X community is exploring anal play at a moderate level rather than at the extremes. Question 3: What type of orgasms do you experience most often during chastity? Ruined orgasms and traditional ejaculatory orgasms were the most common, but prostate-only orgasms were reported by more than a third of respondents, showing that prostate stimulation is becoming a central part of chastity play. Question 4: How often do you incorporate anal play into your chastity routine?  Most participants reported sometimes or weekly anal play, with over 60% making it a regular part of their lockup, while only a small minority said they never engage in it. Question 5: If you partake in prostate play, did you decide to explore anal play / prostate orgasms as a result of being locked in chastity? Nearly half of respondents said chastity was the reason they started exploring prostate play, while just over half had already ventured into anal stimulation before locking up.  Question 6: If you have experienced a prostate orgasm, do you prefer them to traditional ejaculatory orgasms (from penis stimulation)?  Almost 45% said they prefer prostate orgasms, while another 44% had never had one, highlighting both the growing interest and the untapped potential of P-spot exploration in chastity. Question 7: What types of products do you incorporate into anal / prostate play when you’re locked in chastity?  Dildos were the most widely used at nearly 78%, followed by anal lubricants and sex toys for prostate play, showing that most chastity wearers are integrating multiple tools into their anal play rather than limiting themselves to one category. —- As a whole, we see that the majority of folks who took the survey are far beyond curious experimentation and into serious exploration. You aren’t just dipping your toes into anal play; you’re living proof that chastity isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. From strategic ruined orgasms to full-blown prostate-only climax sessions, the data confirms what we've always believed: your chastity journey should fit you, not the other way around. As Anal August 2025 comes to a close, we want to know how these insights landed with you.  Are you more inclined to explore the backdoor, or are you content with your current approach? Drop your thoughts in the comments. Nothing but(t) love, CB-X 

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