10 Ways to Cum in Chastity
Before you keep reading, know that this installment of our Locktober Blog Series is a chastity cum safe space. No cum shaming allowed!
We are ONE week into Locktober 2024! How’s it hanging, fam?
During Locktober, many people in the chastity community challenge themselves to stay locked up from 10/1-10/31.
By the way - this high holiday for the chastity community isn’t to be confused with NNN - No Nut November, which is all about orgasm denial.
Can You Actually Cum While Wearing a Chastity Cage?
One common misconception is that penis chastity devices are anti-orgasm devices. Not true! For most, chastity cages will prevent full erections. However - you don’t need an erection to orgasm and ejaculate.
Even if you are wearing the most secure cock cage device, it is possible to stimulate the penis if you really want to. It is also possible to orgasm and ejaculate while wearing a chastity cage.
To Cum or Not Cum: Should You Cum While Wearing a Chastity Cage?
Ahh, the golden question!
This opinion in the chastity community tends to be split down the middle, depending on who you ask.
“If you’re locked in chastity then you should NEVER try to orgasm - that is the reason you’ve locked up in the first place.”
If you ask us, there is no single, one-size-fits-all answer.
The decision to cum or not in chastity is personal. What your dick does in chastity is your (...and often, your Keyholder/wife/Mistress/Dom/me’s…) business.
If you have been instructed to NOT come during Locktober, we do NOT endorse cheating, for the record.
How to NOT Cum In A Chastity Device
If you DON’T want to orgasm while wearing a chastity cage, here are 3 tips:
1: “To prevent jacking off in chastity, you have to prevent the ability to jack the device itself, or point the penis downward in a way that prevents the jacking motion from moving the glans back and forth inside the tube.”
2: “Get some fast-acting penis desensitizing cream or spray and apply it any time you feel the urge.”
3: “Chastity is psychological. It’s a change of mindset that is required rather than anything physical. So the simple answer of how to avoid jerking off your cock cage is simple- just don’t jerk it.”
10 Creative Ways to Orgasm In a Chastity Cage
Some chastity wearers can have an orgasm without touching the penis at all, while some get creative with penis pleasure.
Here are ten ways to cum in a chastity device, straight from the chastity community.
1: “Insert a wearable prostate massager, listen to some audio-only sissy hypno in headphones, lay down on top of a pillow, and grind on it until you come. Lovense Edge 2 on the 5th setting. It rests right against my prostate.”
2: “A long spanking session with a stiff paddle, a hand or a sex toy can bring me to orgasm while wearing chastity. When my wife wants me to orgasm, she will stimulate my testicles (through my panties of course). Lightly tapping the balls usually does the trick. My clitty isn’t allowed to receive any pleasure.”
3: “If you are looking for something to do in between orgasms, try simply flexing your pelvic muscles. This can result in orgasms that are sometimes even better than a big orgasm because they last forever. And if I am wearing a big butt plug, that intensifies the experience.”
4: “Some of the best orgasms I've ever had were using a powerful wand vibrator on my micro cage. Usually, I can’t even last a minute.”
5: “Wear a penis sleeve cock extender over your cage. Try to orgasm from the visual of stroking, a handjob, or a blowjob without actually stimulating your cock directly. It usually takes all of my concentration to make it happen, and ejaculation is not involved.”
6: “Full-body, Tantric nipplegasms are a lot easier to achieve than you think. Bonus points if you incorporate nipple clamps - but nipple arousal balm is enough to get you going, too.”
7: “Squeeze your balls downward with a flat hand and rub back and forth until you cum in your cage.”
8: “I have a Bluetooth vibrating cock ring that fits on my chastity cage. Mistress controls the vibrations from afar.”
9: “My Keyholder pegs me with her strap-on, and I dildo my hole when she isn’t around. I am only allowed to cum from an anal orgasm. I didn’t think a handsfree prostate orgasm was possible until I went from riding a Large dildo to an XL dildo.”
10: “I like to stroke a dildo imagining my dick were anything other than a clit. Recently, that has been enough to get me to cum, in just like 3-5 minutes.”
Is there a right or wrong way to masturbate while locked in chastity? Nope! Just don’t forget to clean your cock cage after blowing a big load.
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See you next Tuesday for the third installment of our Locktober chastity blog!
xox,
CB-X
