How to Stop Feeling Horny in Chastity
“I love feeling horny all the time. That is why I am into chastity.”
Some often say that feeling horny in a chastity cage is part of why they lock up to begin with. Others say that they have learned to embrace the horniness.
However, every human on earth is having their own unique experience. Being locked in a chastity device is no exception. To each their own.
We heard this once, and it sums it up nicely:
Chastity has to be a choice that makes the person feel comfortable. Otherwise, chastity can end up being a distraction. If the person has a naturally high sex drive, then trying to remain chaste can be a major distraction, unless the person is comfortable trying masturbation. For some people…
Being sexually active is not appealing, regardless of sex drive. Being sexually active is a curiosity, but being chaste won’t necessarily be a distraction. Their sex drive is so high, trying to remain chaste can distract from everyday activities ranging from studies to making breakfast.
The desire to orgasm is natural. And is a very valid option for remaining chaste. Whether or not chastity is a distraction depends on the person.
For those who are participating in Locktober, or simply striving to hit a new personal goal - whatever the case may be - there will always be people who want to know how to stop feeling horny in chastity.
If you identify as one of those chastity wearers, keep reading for 5 tips on what to do when you feel horny in chastity AKA: how to switch off horniness in chastity.
No. 1: Use your sexual energy to do something creative. Do you play an instrument? Grab it and play it. Are you a writer? Write about a topic that you are endlessly fascinated by. Transform your arousal into an act of creation, because sexual energy is creative energy.
No. 2: Stand up and get moving. Do you have a Honey Do List? Get to work!
No. 3: Do something good for yourself, or work on yourself in some way. Exercise is one idea, because you’re being good to your body (and you will likely be too tired to feel horny after you work out!) Wearing the cage during activities is your choice, but always exercise with caution.
No. 4: Watch porn while wearing our Points of Intrigue chastity cage device. Thank us later.
No. 5: It comes down to getting used to wearing a chastity cage long-term. Wear for longer periods of time, like days, weeks, a month, etc. - and you'll start to ignore it.
Tip: Make sure that you are correctly sized in your chastity device. A chastity cage should actually feel comfortable when you are wearing the right size for your body. For many, their U-ring is too small, which can cause discomfort or feel distracting. Try a larger U-ring, and cross-check your penis size with our blog about How to Measure Your Penis for a Chastity Cage.
Ultimately, chastity has the ability to help you focus on other things, without the need to masturbate or touch yourself. As with everything, it is a mindset shift that requires adaptation.
If all else fails, take up a new hobby. Sign up for an online class. Go live life!
Whatever you do, you definitely SHOULDN'T read our last blog, 10 Ways to Cum in Chastity. Hehe.
Feel free to leave your (respectful) tips for others in the comments!
