Chastity Lifestyle Blog

In this installment of the CB-X chastity blog, we are sharing ten ways to cum harder, if and when you are allowed to orgasm. (Consider this the hot older sister to our blog Ten Ways to Cum in Chastity.) For some, wearing a chastity device is not all about the permanent denial of sexual pleasure, masturbation, or partner penetration. Chastity serves many different purposes, including self-mastery, self-control, and strategically delaying pleasure and orgasmic release. Part of the appeal is about being continuously turned on, and not being able to get off.  Chastity wearers know that when the cage comes off, you’re loaded and ready to shoot. Unlocked orgasms are usually extremely intense, both psychologically and physically. You can achieve an intense orgasm without even trying that hard.  The Science of Anticipation Immediate gratification is like a candy bar. Denial is like an expensive dinner – you savor every bite and think about it for days. For penis owners, this is where controlled denial enters the picture. Sustaining arousal without immediate release leads to the following biological responses: Heightened physical sensitivity and orgasmic potential Higher testosterone and hormone levels Increased ejaculatory volume More powerful muscular contractions during climax These responses combine to create longer, and significantly more intense orgasms when release finally occurs. Bust Through A Boring Masturbation Routine At one point or another, some might say that they have experienced the underwhelming nature of masturbation. There is nothing wrong with routine; it works functionally, but oftentimes lacks creativity or intensity. For most, the standard approach to masturbation often follows the same, predictable pattern: arousal, stimulation, climax, reset. (Watching porn on your phone or laptop while masturbating can get boring – especially when it takes longer to find the scene that gets you off than it takes to actually orgasm.) Having a familiar routine can lead to diminishing returns, where solo sessions become more mechanical than mind-blowing. By weaving creativity together with the natural anticipation that chastity provides, you can transform predictable pleasure into something remarkably intense and deeply satisfying. Masturbation Hacks for Next-Level Orgasms Don’t touch your penis for 10 days. Unlock. Before you start masturbating, sit on something solid and put a water bottle underneath your butt to put pressure on your prostate). When you’re about to cum, take a deep breath and relax. See you in heaven! Sit on your hands until they go completely numb before you start stroking. (Otherwise known as The Stranger.)  Put on headphones and try SSEM (Sexual Stimulation Erotic Meditation). Click here to listen to an SSEM audio recording that features “intense binaural tones for orgasm enhancement! Intensify your climaxes and break free from sexual blockades with deep hypnotic binaural beats in the delta and alpha range.”  Set a timer for 15 minutes, 30 minutes, or any timeframe that feels like a challenge. Then, sync your strokes with the sound of a metronome. If you are playing with a partner, allow them to control the metronome's speed. You’re allowed to get off when the timer goes off.  Lube is a quick & easy way to enhance pleasure -- just a couple of drops can transform every stroke.. Looking for a long-lasting, thick formula that pairs perfectly with edging? Try a silicone formula like JO Premium Silicone Lubricant. (Note - silicone lube shouldn’t be used with silicone sex toys.) If you want your lube to mimic the feel of natural lubrication, we recommend a body-safe, water-based sex lubricant like Pjur Aqua Body Glide.   No lube nearby? Rub your shaft with your thumb in small circular motions and use your pre-cum as lube. A little wetness helps your hand slide over your head more easily.  Use a male masturbation stroker on your unlocked cock, but wear a hollow harness or a cock sheath over to diminish sensations. For more ideas, explore the best sex toys for chastity here. Learn where your frenulum is and give it extra special attention. (On the underside of the head of the penis). This pleasure point is just as sensitive as the clitoris on a vulva. Tie your hands behind your back, unlock your cage, and make yourself cum without using your hands. Some creative ways for hands-free penis orgasms include dry-humping a pillow, or using a wall-mounted suction cup dildo for simultaneous prostate stimulation. We all know how to crank one out manually, but a hands-free orgasm is an amazing experience during solo play! If you're alone and are in the right place to get loud, get loud. Moan. Grunt. Be super verbal. Go primal. This is good practice if your partner likes it when you’re loud.  If you find yourself reading this blog and you’ve never worn a chastity cage, one way to send your orgasm through the roof when you masturbate is to lock your cock for a day. Try it, and you might come to learn that chastity play can be less about pain and more about pleasure. Wiggle your toes while you climax. The orgasm sensation will travel down your legs.  Note: If you try any of these tips, beware that the next time you urinate, it will likely spray at a minimum of seven different directions. Do with this information what you will.  3 Chastity and Masturbation FAQs "If I masturbate, am I breaking the rules?" Who holds your chastity keys? What agreements do you have in place – with your Keyholder, or yourself? Masturbating doesn’t necessarily defy “the rules” of chastity play. Everyone’s rules are different, depending on what is acceptable for their lifestyle, relationship or D/s dynamic.  "Can I still get an erection in a chastity cage?" Yes. One purpose of wearing a chastity cage is to not get an erection. However, many chastity cages still allow room for erections (unless you’re wearing a micro cock cage). A chastity cage isn’t a barricade to masturbation – it’s just a speed bump.  "Does wearing a chastity cage mean I have to stop masturbating?" Again, who holds your chastity keys? You don’t have to stop - but look at it this way: chastity cages can encourage the wearer to discover creative alternatives to masturbation. Masturbation May Takeaways CB-X specifically engineers men's chastity cages to provide extended comfort while maintaining security. This is essential for those seeking to maximize the pleasure-enhancing effects of temporary denial. Explore our premium chastity devices designed specifically for comfort during extended wear while maintaining the security necessary for true anticipation building. Life is too short not to experience mind-blowing orgasms. Whether you’re locked in a chastity cage or not, make every one count. Did this blog get you hot and bothered? Cool down by reading our tips on How to Stop Feeling Horny in Chastity. If you've read this far, you get a treat! Enjoy 10% off sitewide on your CB-X.com purchase. Use promo code 13MAYTIPS at checkout. (Cannot be combined with other promotions.) Happy International Masturbation Month! Celebrate accordingly.