Halloween costumes don't have to end up in the back of your closet on November 1st! The right bondage accessories do double duty: they add a subtle nod to the lifestyle for those in the community by working as legitimate kink tools in the bedroom and holding up long-term, whether you're hitting a Halloween party or living that kinky life 365 days a year. 1: Lingerie  Yeah, it’s the lowest-hanging fruit, but for good reason! Lingerie walks the line between costume and kink better than almost any other type of clothing or costume accessory. Sexy apparel is versatile enough to make a statement in public, and practical to wear during intimate situations or bondage scenes. Elements like PVC, fishnet, mesh, or lace brings “oomph” to any outfit effortlessly. The best part: you can dress it up or dress it down, keep it minimal, or go balls to the wall from head to toe. 🔥 Ultimately, lingerie makes it easy to channel a specific character, persona or archetype for just about any costume look. And if you just want a quick boost of confidence, the right piece of sexy apparel can transform the way you move through a room.  Lingerie Recommendation #1 Dreamgirl Sheer Lace-Up Garter Dress with Thigh Highs Costume Ideas Frank-N-Furter, Rocky Horror Picture Show | Pair it with: a thicc pearl necklace, platform heels, lace-up gloves, a curly black wig, and a smoky eye. (A black lace garter belt with thigh-highs works as an alternative, too.) Kinky Morticia Addams, The Addams Family | Pair it with: black stilettos, deep burgundy lipstick, and a chain-link cock leash for your sub, and fuzzy sensory play cuffs Hedwig & the Angry Inch | Pair it with: glitter platform boots, a cropped denim jacket, denim cutoffs, teased hair, classic black leather cuffs, fishnets, and a red lip Lingerie Recommendation #2 Magic Silk Pink Kink Ultra Mini Skirt and Chest Harness Set Costume Ideas Sissy Slut | Pair it with: a rose gold collar with attached nipple clamps, pink glitter male chastity cage, pink chastity jingle bell charm, open-back lace panties, pink nail polish, and a pink locking collar  Skimpy Regina George, Mean Girls | Pair it with: a pink cropped jacket, BRAT choker, a Princess Bag makeup pouch, and fuzzy pink heels Dominatrix Barbie | Pair it with: white or pink patent leather boots, hot pink thigh-highs, oversized pink sunglasses, and a femme riding crop (its giving Barbie Dreamhouse Dungeon vibes.) 2: Bondage Restraints Collars (leash optional) are the ultimate crossover Halloween costume accessory. In the bedroom, they're an essential component of power exchange. A good collar sits at the intersection of conspicuous and wearable, which is exactly what you want in a bondage accessory to wear when Halloween festivities are over. Plus, the psychological weight of wearing a collar (or holding a leash) doesn't need a special occasion. Bondage Restraints Recommendation Hello Sexy! Hot Bitch Iridescent BDSM Collar + Leash Costume Ideas Jules Vaughn, Euphoria | Pair it with: Sheer pastel mesh top or sparkly bralette, iridescent mini skirt or lace shorts, glitter eyeliner, pink platform boots Club Brat / Fashion Sub | Pair it with: Platform boots, glitter gloss (for hair or body), messy hair Y2K Pop Princess (Britney & Xtina Era) | Pair it with: Metallic bodysuit, low-rise jeans or rhinestone mini skirt, frosted makeup, crimped hair, pink-tinted sunglasses Honorable Mentions: Queen of Hearts: Heart Day Collar and Red Heart Handcuffs Marie Antoinette: Peaches 'N Creame Faux Fur-Lined BDSM Collar & Rose Gold Leash The Craft / Witchy Goth or Vampire: Sex & Mischief Ex's & Oh's Crystal BDSM Choker with Lock 3: Women's Chastity Belts Chastity belts make a statement. They're impossible to ignore, whether worn over clothing as part of a costume or underneath as your little secret. For Halloween, they fit perfectly into warrior, post-apocalyptic, or Dom/me aesthetics. After the party, they're still functional gear.  Chastity Belt Recommendation  Deluxe Leather Locking Chastity Belt for Women Costume Ideas Mad Max / Furiosa (Post-Apocalyptic Rebel) | Pair it with: black combat boots, metal accessories, dirt-smeared makeup, and fingerless gloves Submissive Squire | Pair it with: linen tunic, leather boots, cock & ball splitter Tank Girl | Pair it with: distressed denim cutoffs or a combat kilt, military helmet with graffiti or stickers, and a black lace bra 4: Bondage Hoods & Masks Hoods are next-level costume material. They're dramatic, they're unmistakable, and they immediately signal what kind of party you're at. Pup hoods especially work for any character that involves transformation or animalistic energy. Wear it for the aesthetic, keep it for the play. Bondage Hood Recommendation  Locking Lace-Up Vegan Leather Dog Hood Mask Costume Ideas The Gimp, Pulp Fiction | Pair it with: Collar with D-ring or chain leash, black leather jacket, studded accessories, combat boots, ballgag Puppy-In-Training | Pair it with: A collar-and-leash combo, knee pads, and/or puppy tail butt plug Scooby Doo (But Make it Kinky) | Pair it with: Brown or tan clothing base (onesie, joggers, or cutoff tee), a blue bondage collar (you can find an “SD” tag on Etsy), and a box of “Scooby Snacks” for comedic commitment. Check out alternative BDSM puppy play accessories here. Bondage Mask Recommendation Half-Face Vegan Leather Bunny Mask Costume Ideas Dark Playboy | Pair it With: Black suit jacket (no top) or an open dress shirt, black bow tie, bunny tail butt plug, combat boots Donnie Darko | Pair it With: Gray hoodie or ripped black hoodie, dark jeans and boots Black Wonderland Bunny | Pair it With: Victorian-style vest, tailcoat or lace shirt, pocket watch, wire-rimmed glasses, and a red leashed collar (so you don’t get lost down the rabbit hole) Bondage gear might be built for the bedroom, but it doesn't have to stay there. With the right styling it’s street legal, dungeon approved, and Halloween perfection. Spirit Halloween could never.

If you’ve made it this far, congratulations! You’re officially past the Locktober warm-up round. 💪 Weeks 3 and 4 are when Locktober shifts from “novelty challenge” into more hardcore endurance training.  This blog is your playbook for the final stretch, and it includes 14 new chastity activities for Locktober, fresh affirmations, and more distraction hacks to make sure you don’t tap out early.  Three reminders about the 2025 CB-X Locktober Challenge: If this is your first Locktober, these beginner-friendly chastity games work whether you're locked for a few hours, a few days, or the full month. Our focus for Locktober 2025 is mindfulness. All chastity activities, including Week 1 & Week 2, are designed to make the wearer more aware of the cage during day-to-day routines, building mental discipline and intentionality. The goal is to connect a Locktober practice to bigger themes of patience, control, and delayed gratification.  A Keyholder or partner isn’t required to participate; all activities can be modified to align with your lifestyle. If you missed the start of the challenge, click here to catch up with our library of Locktober content before diving into this final stretch. Chastity Device Upgrades: How to Intensify Week 3 & 4 For experienced wearers ready to level up during Weeks 3 and 4: treat yo'self. 😉 Consider our Points of Intrigue (internal sensory spikes) or Anti-Pullout Device (tighter fitting) that make the cage impossible to ignore during any movement or arousal. If you're trying one for the first time, start with shorter sessions to ensure proper fit. Always prioritize hygiene, take breaks to check circulation, and listen to your body above all! These accessories for mens chastity cages intensify the mental challenge significantly, but they require honest self-assessment about your limits and responsible use. 14 Locktober Activities for October 16–31 Week 3 Key in the Hole: Carry your key in your pocket all day but don’t touch it. The weight = reminder of control. Staircase Squeeze: Find a set of stairs. Walk up, pause halfway, and clench your pelvic muscles 10 times. Repeat.  Silent Alarm: Set a phone alarm for a random time. Title it something like “Stay Locked.” When it goes off, take one minute to breathe and repeat an affirmation. Caged Stretch: Hold a deep forward bend for 60 seconds, and notice how the cage shifts against your body. PM Reflection: Before sleep, write down one moment today when the cage reminded you why you're doing this.  Coffee Shop Sit: Spend 30 minutes working or reading at a coffee shop (or a bar) while locked. The mundane setting makes the secret more intense. Mind Tease: Read a piece of erotic fiction and practice resisting your body’s response. Week 4 Keyholder Fantasy Script: Write a short “scene” as if your dream Keyholder gave you orders. Read it to yourself before bed. 30-Minute Task: Pick a household chore you hate. Do it locked, no breaks, until it’s complete. Locked Breathing: Practice deep breathing with one hand over your cage. Notice tension rise and fall without acting on it. Sunrise or Sunset Sit: Watch the entire sunrise or sunset (without your phone!) and observe the slow transition of nature. Be patient. Be present. Public Transit Ride: Take a bus, Uber, or train ride for at least 3 stops while locked. The vibrations and stops create constant awareness without you controlling the pace. Aisle Endurance: Go grocery shopping while locked. Pick up at least 5 items from different aisles. The mundane errand becomes a subtle endurance test. Final Night Tease: On October 31, take a long hot shower while locked. Reflect on what 31 days has taught you. 5 New Chastity Affirmations for Locktober Discomfort is temporary, but the confidence I build lasts. Each locked day is proof I can master myself. Frustration is fuel for growth. Restraint is not weakness; it’s strength. I finish what I start. More Mind Over Cage Distraction Tools Cold compress: A quick press to the thighs beats edging yourself into trouble! Meditation timer: Listen to guided chastity audio to pull your focus away from your groin, like this Locktober Chastity Hypnosis Meditation by Meta Goddess. Creative outlet: Sketch, cook, or build something. Busy hands, clear mind. Community check-in: Post your progress in the Locktober 2025 Reddit thread or message a fellow cage-wearer for accountability. You'll find nothing but supportive people! Future fantasy: Write a detailed plan for your 11/1 release day ritual. Let anticipation motivate you, not distract you. The Home Stretch The back half of Locktober is less about novelty and more about endurance. Every skipped urge is a win. You’ve proven you can stay locked this long, now prove you can finish what you started. And for your reward, use code LOCKTOBER20 to receive 20% off all chastity products! What's been your most challenging Locktober activity so far? Leave us a comment below and let us know which tasks pushed your limits (or which ones surprised you...in a good way). We'd love to hear what's working for you this Locktober!

Forget Hallmark Holidays. National Kink Day is here on October 6! This year feels especially relevant for CB-X and our community because of a major reveal about kinky preferences across the United States. Earlier this year, Clips4Sale released its 2025 Fetish of the Year report. If you’re new to the name, Clips4Sale is an adult clip marketplace where independent creators sell kink and fetish content to audiences worldwide. They’ve been a major pay site in the industry since 2003, long before free tube sites like PornHub reshaped adult video consumption.  Side note! Before we dive into the C4S insights, let’s clarify kink v. fetish terminology. People often use “kink” and “fetish” like they mean the same thing, but they’re different. In this blog, we will stick to “fetish” since that’s the word Clips4Sale used in their findings. What’s the Difference Between a Kink and a Fetish? A Kinkster Explains “A kink is a turn on that is typically ‘out of the ordinary’ that enhances sexual pleasure. A fetish turns you on regardless of context. I have a kink for feet because, for me, pretty feet make a girl hotter. I don't have a fetish because I don't get turned on just by seeing feet and I don't ever find women attractive solely because they have pretty feet (pun intended).” (All semantics aside, our kink = transforming numbers into narratives. If data makes you horny, too, browse a huge catalog of various PornHub Insights or C4S’ recap of how online sex has changed the world over 20 years.) From Niche to Numero Uno If you guessed chastity was the big winner, give yourself a gold star! Out of all the leather, latex, feet, and rope devotees, chastity snapped the lock as the Top Fetish of 2025! For context, PornHub Insights has shown Hentai holding the crown as the most-searched keyword in recent years. However, as an adult content paysite (not a tube site), C4S’s data offers a different lens by highlighting the p0rn clips that people are actually buying. And that’s where things get interesting. At first glance, the results might surprise people outside of the kink community. Chastity has been considered a deep-cut kink, tucked away in the corners of online forums and sex toy shops for a long time.  Chastity emerging from the dungeon and into the daylight? We love to see it. Worried chastity might lose its edge because it’s trending upward? Nah. It’s less like a bandwagon and more like your favorite indie band finally getting the recognition they deserve.  Silver & Bronze The two runners-up: cuckold and gooning. Cuckold play continues to draw attention for the way it blends voyeurism and power dynamics, which resonate across mainstream porn and personal relationships. Gooning has exploded in popularity over the last few years, moving from niche forums into the larger kink conversation. Its focus on edging, trance-like states, and obsession with porn consumption has created a subculture all its own, reflecting how far people are willing to push the boundaries of arousal and control. The United States of Fetish Clips4Sale also compiled the highest-searched fetishes on their porn clips across the U.S. in its "Fetish Map of the United States". We see you, Nebraska!  More Kinky Data: Clips4Sale’s 2025 “United States of Fetish” Map - a separate report that revealed the most searched-for fetishes in each U.S. state. Variety is...the Whole Point What we learned from the findings: more people are leaning into the dynamic power exchange of lock-and-key play. A chastity device is a symbol; chastity play is an act of surrender, discipline, and erotic curiosity all rolled into one. And when you think about it like that, it’s no wonder chastity is having a mainstream moment.  Celebrating National Kink Day means shining a light on the spectrum of interests that make up kink culture. Some gravitate toward high-gloss latex and rope suspensions, others to roleplay or spanking. And now we know there’s a growing wave of people who’d rather click a lock shut and see what happens when orgasm isn’t the end goal.  Curiosity wins, discovery wins, acceptance wins. National Kink Day in a nutshell, y'all. Embrace your Kinky side and enjoy 15% off any products from the CB-X Kink Boutique! Use code 2025KINKDAYDISCOUNT at checkout to unlock your exclusive discount. (offer valid 10/6 - 10/10/2025)

Locked in for the full 31 days of Locktober? Make it official! 🔐 This year, we created a library of free digital Locktober logo assets in multiple sizes and color schemes so that you can: Document your chastity journey Connect with other Locktober participants, and/or Stay publicly (or semi-publicly) accountable during Locktober  Use them now to announce you're participating, or save them for November 1st to flex your Locktober completion. If you need help staying accountable all month, snag the CB-X Locktober Challenge Workbook for daily activities, mental discipline exercises, and tracking tools for the full 31 days. Where's the link to download? Keep reading. 🤓 Ideas For CB-X Locktober Digital Assets Create personalized images in Canva. From the homepage, click "Create a Design". Once you upload the digital Locktober asset/s of your choice, you can resize each logo to create custom Facebook headers, Twitter banners, or Instagram story templates & more with a free account. If you run a chastity-focused account, blog, or community space, these assets can give your content instant, cohesive Locktober branding.  Use them as a phone wallpaper or social media profile pic to keep yourself accountable all month long. The assets come in a few different color options, so pick what works for your aesthetic. They're free, they're adaptable, and they're ready to download.  Download CB-X Locktober Digital Assets here. 'Cause, like, everyone knows that in 2025, if there's no digital proof, it didn’t actually happen.😉 Locks of love, -Team CB-X