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Our second blog installment for Anal August 2025 focuses on the best wearable anal plugs designed for extended wear during chastity play. Our in-house Certified Sex Educator intentionally selected each prostate toy on this list to achieve the trifecta of comfort, safety, and that sweet spot stimulation for a next-level chastity experience.  These plugs are expertly contoured and designed to target the prostate from inside, offering a completely different dimension of pleasure than traditional penis-focused stimulation. Why Combine Prostate Play with Chastity? The Mind-Body Connection. Adding anal play to your chastity routine opens up an entirely new physical and mental dimension unlike familiar penis pleasure. Instead of focusing on what you can't touch, anal play shifts your attention to your anal canal and prostate, creating a powerful psychological shift. Many chastity players find that wearing a butt plug while caged creates the perfect mental conditioning. Your brain becomes accustomed to seeking pleasure from your prostate instead of expecting traditional stimulation like ejaculatory orgasms. Prostate orgasms, often called "Super O's," are full-body experiences that differ completely from ejaculatory orgasms. The angled tips of quality prostate massagers allows for hands-free orgasms because they hit the P-spot precisely. Simple movements like rocking or shifting while wearing them can trigger intense prostate climax without any manual stimulation. The best part? After experiencing prostate-only orgasms while caged, you won't lose your horniness. Unlike traditional ejaculatory orgasms that result in a refractory period, prostate orgasms can maintain the sublime arousal state that makes chastity play so psychologically compelling to begin with.  Without further adieu… Top 5 Wearable Prostate Toys for Chastity  #5 - For the Beginner/Minimalist B-Swish Bfilled Basic Prostate Massager  Perfect for P-spot play newcomers, this beginner-friendly prostate plug features a comfortable size and ergonomic design specifically shaped to target the P-spot. The simple, effective design focuses on comfort and ease of use without overwhelming features. Its smooth silicone construction and manageable dimensions make it ideal for extended wear during chastity sessions, or throughout the day no matter where you are. #4 - The Heavyweight Champion nJoy Pfun Stainless Steel Prostate Plug Crafted from premium stainless steel, this 11-ounce beauty delivers firm, controlled massage directly to the prostate through sheer weight and nJoy’s precision engineering. The substantial heft creates incredible sensations during movement, especially in positions like doggystyle where gravity enhances the experience. The Pfun Plug prods the P-spot with surgical precision that metal enthusiasts absolutely crave, whether manually controlled or activated with your own sphincter muscle contractions #3 - Size Queen Supreme Honey Play Box Pineapple Man Rolling Beads Prostate Massager The Pineapple Man delivers girth and innovative features in one massive package. This extra-large prostate vibrator features rolling beads in the neck that stimulate the sphincter with textured, moving sensations while the curved head hits your P-spot upon entry. Its substantial size ensures you feel super stuffed while the remote control lets you (or your Keyholder) adjust intensity without interruption. The flared base and slender neck keep everything secure during extended sessions, making it perfect for serious size enthusiasts who want hands-free prostate stimulation with serious presence. #2 -  The Ultimate Mmmmultitasker Playboy Pleasures Bring it On Thrusting Anal Plug with Vibrating Ball Cradle This isn't your average prostate toy - it's a multi-tasking marvel that combines thrusting anal vibration with a vibrating ball cradle that wraps around your sack like a gentle hammock. The beaded, multi-speed design delivers targeted prostate stimulation while the "winged" cradle treats your balls (and probably your taint) to synchronized vibrations. This premium toy easily accommodates cock cages, making it perfect for chastity play where you want maximum stimulation without any penis involvement. #1 - The Shape Shifter Aneros PSY Adjustable Prostate Massager Named after the Greek word for butterfly, the Aneros Psy offers completely customizable prostate pleasure through its unique adjustable design. This innovative massager features bendable arms that let you fine-tune insertable length, angle of prostate engagement, and external pressure to create your perfect custom fit. The multi-contoured ribbed body provides stronger stimulation while the flexible tabs enhance responsiveness to your body's movements. For chastity play, this customization means you can dial in the exact sensations that work with your cage and body positioning, creating hands-free Super O's that feel perfectly tailored to your anatomy. Now - we want to state up front that this design IS wearable - however, it is not intended for grinding. Be sure to read the product details for detailed usage instructions. Honorable Mention - Fan Favorite Lovense Edge 2 Vibrating Prostate Massager Adored by the chastity community, the Edge 2 unlocks new dimensions of prostate stimulation with dual motors targeting the internal P-spot and external perineum simultaneously. This hands-free powerhouse is Bluetooth enabled, connecting to the Lovense App for close-range or long-distance control. The adjustable design ensures perfect positioning while powerful vibrations deliver mind-blowing prostate orgasms that the chastity community can't stop raving about. Here is just one glowing user review:  "I'm looking forward to that very thing on my trip next week. Cage(s), two Lovense (Edge and Edge 2), several nights in a hotel alone. Mmmm. 2 weeks edged and built up already so I'll be begging for it." The Ultimate Chastity Experience Awaits The beauty of combining prostate play with chastity goes far beyond the physical sensations (though those are incredible). While your cock cage keeps one pleasure center off-limits, these plugs unlock an entirely different kind of experience. Fair warning: once you experience hands-free Super Orgasms while locked, you might find yourself questioning everything you thought you knew about pleasure.  Your move.

When it comes to BDSM practices with high impact, few hold the reputation that cock and ball torture (CBT) does. The name alone can make even seasoned kinksters flinch… and yes, it’s often confused with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which it kinda is, but for your cock ‘n’ balls. Like other bondage practices, consent, intent, technique, and communication are non-negotiable. When executed safely, CBT unlocks a cornucopia of sensory delights to can heighten arousal, foster trust, and transform how penis owners experience physical sensation. Done wrong…well, let’s make sure that doesn’t happen. What Is Cock and Ball Torture, Really? CBT, or cock and ball torture, is a form of sensation and restraint play focused on the genitals. It can include everything from light pressure and stretching to impact, temperature play, or mild pain, all under the umbrella of controlled pleasure. Despite the word “torture,” the goal isn’t to harm, but to amplify sensation and power dynamics through intentional discomfort.  The Key to Safe CBT: Discipline Over Damage For beginners, it is important to acknowledge that pain isn’t necessarily the goal; control is. Well, a little bit of pain is part of the process in many cases. However, keep in mind that control is the line between “torture” and turn on. Safe CBT is meant to explore how far you or your partner can push sensation while staying in full command of everything. You have the ability to decide when to intensify, when to ease up, and when to stop.  Pictured: Kinklab Buckling Cock Ring And Chain Leash Set Soap on a rope's filthy cousin. Start With the Stretch: Building Tolerance Ball stretching is one of the most approachable forms of CBT because it focuses on gradual sensation versus hardcore impact. The feeling of weight and pull can feel super erotic, especially when paired with a chastity cage or cock & ball strap that keeps everything in place. If you’re new to stretching, the Oxballs Slung Ballstretcher adds a secure grip and customizable tension using its triple-carabiner design. For those ready to up the ante, the Oxballs Heavy Squeeze Weighted Ballstretcher combines compression and gravity for a deep, grounding pressure that feels impossible to ignore. This might be the ultimate cock and ball torture toy for beginners. Why we love it: Oxballs’ Heavy Squeeze Weighted ball stretcher is fully customizable; three body-safe stainless steel weights are included, and you can add or remove them based on the type of experience you want. No guesswork or carabiners required. Pictured: Oxballs Heavy Squeeze Weighted Ballstretcher Gravity: the most reliable Dom/me If any of this sounds intimidating, remember this: CBT isn’t a competition; it’s a slow burn. Sensation > strain. Alternate between testing, wearing, and resting. Your body will tell you what’s too much long before any “damage” might occur.  Beyond the Stretch: Restraint & Sensation Once you understand the basics, CBT can evolve into a full sensory ritual. Pair a micro cock cage with tools like a Wartenberg Pinwheel, the KinkLab Buckling Cock Ring and Chain Leash Set, or Urethral Sounds for advanced connoisseurs. Fun fact: urethral sounds were originally used to help treat bladder stones. Traveling down the urethra with a long urethral sounding device can reach down far enough and directly stimulate the prostate. So, aside from sounding (no pun intended) a bit f*cking nuts (pun intended) to beginners, it is possible to experience pleasure through urethral sounding. Pictured: Glow-in-the-Dark Ballsack Testicle Sling CBT training wheels for your balls What Are the Most Common CBT Sensations? Stretching (Tension) What it feels like: A deep, pulling pressure on the scrotum that creates a mix of ache and arousal. Devices: Ball stretchers, weights, silicone rings, or chains. Result: Builds sensitivity, gives a “low-hang” aesthetic, and enhances orgasm intensity later. Compression (Constrictive Pressure) What it feels like: Firm squeeze around the base or balls that increases blood flow and tightens sensation. Devices: Adjustable ball stretchers, cock & ball rings Result: Creates a throbbing fullness; often used before or during edging. Impact (Striking, Slapping, or Light Flicking) What it feels like: Sharp, surface-level sting or dull thud depending on intensity. Devices: Hands, or BDSM impact play toys like high-quality floggers, spanking paddles, riding crops, or light slappers made for CBT (steer clear of household items) Result: Produces an adrenaline spike and reinforces a psychological power exchange. Temperature Play What it feels like: Alternating waves of heat or chill across sensitive skin. Devices: Metal or glass stretchers, ice cubes, warm water, cooling balm, or temperature-safe lubes. Result: Enhances nerve sensitivity; the contrast heightens awareness and control. Vibration and Electro Stimulation What it feels like: Buzzing or pulsing sensations that tease rather than push to orgasm. Devices: Bullet vibrators, wand vibrators and attachments, Neon Wands,TENS (electrical stimulation) units, or vibrating penis rings. Result: Adds intensity without direct friction; useful for long chastity play sessions. Weight and Gravity What it feels like: A steady pull downward, intensifying over time. Devices: Weighted ball stretchers or clip-on weights. Result: Deep ache that builds mental focus and endurance. Sensory Deprivation What it feels like: Heightened awareness when sight or hearing is restricted. Devices: Blindfolds, gags and restraints. Result: Forces attention inward to every twitch and pull. Pictured: Stainless Steel Beaded Urethral Sounds Set The ...scenic...route to P-spot pleasure Aftercare, Always After a CBT session, aftercare isn’t optional. The skin and tissue around the genitals are delicate, and even light pressure or stretching can leave them feeling tender. Rinse the area with warm water and mild soap, then pat dry gently to prevent irritation. A soothing cream like Tantus After Care Cream helps reduce inflammation and rehydrate the skin with natural botanical ingredients. The mental cooldown is also just as important as physical TLC: take a few minutes to breathe, check in with yourself or your partner, and ground back into your body. Aftercare is a window of time to connect, and it keeps your next session something to look forward to, not recover from. Control: the Real MVP of CBT CBT takes patience, focus, and trust. Every stretch, flick, slap, and squeeze is an exercise in awareness and control, where small tweaks can make all the difference. Mastering control is what turns pain into pleasure, and play into art. If you're feeling a wee bit scared and aroused at the same time, good. That's exactly where you need to be.