As much as hard-core kinksters may indulge their fetishes by engaging in male chastity play, this titillating concept is also enjoyed by all kinds of couples looking for a way to spice things up in their relationship.
Caging his cock is also – believe it or not – a great way to improve trust and intimacy between romantic partners.
The challenge, if you’re new to the concept of a chastity cage, is knowing how to get started. Our tips will help you navigate this adventure and unlock an exciting new world of sensuality and pleasure.
No 1: Banish the Shame About Exploring Male Chastity
Whether you want to approach your partner about caging your cock or if he’s brought the subject up to you, shame has no place between you.
As long as you are both willing, consenting adults and you agree to explore this aspect of your sexuality together, you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of – and neither does your partner.
No. 2: Educate Yourself About Male Chastity
Whether you aspire to be the caged or the Keyholder in control of his manhood, it’s imperative that you learn everything about this sensual practice – and not just the nuts and bolts (!) of the process.
More than anything, male chastity is an activity that engages the mind. It can have profound mental, emotional and psychological effects on both participants, and understanding how it may affect you or your partner is important.
No. 3: Understand the Importance of Communication, Limits and Safewords
These concepts are the foundation of BDSM, fetish play and alternative lifestyle activities of all kinds. But they’re equally important even if you’re just engaging in light male chastity play.
You and your partner must trust each other implicitly to get the most out of the experience, and that requires open and honest communication. If you discuss your desires and expectations and clearly outline limits, you’ll avoid many of the potential hiccups that can ruin the experience.
Never underestimate the importance of having – and using – safewords, but don’t let them freak you out, either. Having your partner use their safeword doesn’t mean that you did anything wrong or failed them in any way. And it definitely doesn’t mean you can’t keep exploring this stimulating practice.
No. 4: Talk to Your Partner About Male Chastity Play
For many people, this can be the hardest part, but don’t let that stop you from moving forward.
Before you approach your partner, do your homework and be prepared to share some of the educational materials you’ve discovered in your research. If they seem resistant at first, don’t let that deter you.
The fact is that male chastity is an extremely common – and normal – fantasy. It’s neither weird nor extreme, and it’s regularly practiced by couples that define themselves as otherwise vanilla.
And, if you try it and discover that it’s not for you or your partner, it can open the door to exploring your sexuality and intimacy in other new and exciting ways.
No. 5: Choose the Right Male Chastity Training Device
Never delve into male chastity play without having the right equipment. Choosing a penis cage can be confusing, especially when it comes to size and material. Avoid any metal cock cages or tube-style designs, as they can cause damage if you aren’t experienced or if you keep him under lock and key for too long. These can also make hygiene and answering nature’s call unnecessary difficult.
Instead, choose a high-quality, cage-style device made from medical-grade polycarbonate – like the CB-6000 MALE CHASTITY DEVICE from CB-X. Considered the gold-standard in the industry, CB-X products command a whopping 71% of the chastity cage market and are the preferred devices used by the most experienced practitioners.
However you make it work in your relationship, get started today on your journey to greater trust, intimacy and sexual satisfaction with male chastity play.